The Lunacy and Truth of “We are OK!”
by Carolin Messier
Seven strangers sit
holding mugs of herbal tea
as warmth and comfort.
Each tells a story
of love lost to suicide,
mysteries remain.
Sobs of grief and pain,
full of questions and self-doubt,
punctuate some tales.
Factual, detached,
chronologically precise,
one mourner reports.
Numbed in disbelief
a recent death stuns and dulls,
eyes fill silently.
Lives ripped and ruptured
try making sense of chaos
where none can be found.
Sweet memories shared
of life before the madness
brighten sad faces.
In the tragedies,
left to puzzle and survive,
we search for meaning.
Some prevailing truths
limited to suicide
can be ludicrous.
Then one smiles and laughs
and with solidarity
another joins in.
Grateful for this place
where talk of horror, lunacy,
and death shock no one.
We seven all are
members of a lonely club,
no one wants to be.
We all understand
life’s foundation’s been destroyed,
but a roof remains.
This was one of those hesitations to hit the ‘like’ button. But I like that you wrote this. And as sad as I am that there are seven of you going through this, I am glad (if that is the right word) to know that there are seven of you gathered together to do what you can to help one another through this.
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I understand the hesitation and that you like that it was written without liking the content. Unfortunately there are far more than seven of us in this horrible club, but that’s how many showed up this month. No matter what our trials or troubles, it always helps to hear the words “me too” or “I get it” or even to just see the gentle, knowing nod of a head.
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I understand what you mean. I don’t mean to say I understand what you are going through, not having been there I cannot say that. But I do understand what you mean by having someone who can be there with you who does understand. Forgive my redundancy in this.
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Lovely tribute to the solidarity of grief.
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Thank you Ellen. We all need to feel that we are not alone, regardless of what we’re going through.
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